David Gresham House

Residential Care Home and Independent Living in Oxted

David Gresham House has 29 single rooms for residential care – all with their own wetroom and personal shower. There are two light-filled lounges, an excellent library, a spacious dining room and a lovely conservatory where residents enjoy socialising and entertaining…well, whenever they feel like it! 

There are also 5 independent living flats – 4 designed for couples and 1 single. The layouts include exactly what you’d expect: bedroom, sitting room, kitchenette and toilet/shower room. These flats are ideal for more active older people, who need less support with everyday essentials, but do want extra security and companionship. The flats have a separate entrance to the residential care home, a communal lounge, dedicated laundry facility and lift.

Welcome to David Gresham House

At David Gresham House in Oxted, we’re proud of our charitable status that allows us to prioritise exceptional care over financial gain. Our dedicated team members build meaningful relationships with each resident, ensuring personalised support that honours individual dignity and preferences. 

The result? A thriving community filled with friendship and joy. Walk through our doors and you’ll immediately sense the difference – shared meals, spontaneous laughter, and the comfortable familiarity that transforms our care home into a true family environment where everyone feels like they belong.

Look inside David Gresham House

David Gresham House
2 Oak Close
Oxted
Surrey
RH8 0BA

David Gresham House

2 Oak Close
Oxted
Surrey
RH8 0BA

01883 715948

Care fees

Residential Care Home

£1,438 - £1,541 per week

29 en-suite rooms

Respite Stays

Available with advance booking

When you move into a residential or nursing home, you’ll still be able to receive Attendance Allowance, and the good news is, it isn’t based on your financial situation.

The allowance is paid at two different rates, depending on how much care you require.

Even if you're not currently claiming, take a look at the link below.

How to Claim Attendance Allowance
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Emese Pomezanski

Registered Manager David Gresham House

Emese’s early working career developed from studying sports & exercise therapy, delivering tailor made exercise / rehabilitation programs to her clients of all ages.

Her first interaction with the care industry came from coaching mobility sessions to elderly residents at a local nursing home. Emese later became the activities coordinator for the home, a position which she held for 7 years, during which time she gained invaluable knowledge and experience about caring for the elderly in a care home environment.

In 2018, Emese re-located to a small, dementia specialist care home and within 9 months, she completed the Level 5 Leadership & Management Diploma in Adult Health and Social Care and became the CQC Registered Care Home Manager for Wolfe House Care Home in Oxted, Surrey.

After completing a Level six Leadership & Management module with the University of Surrey, Emese joined the Society in 2024 as the Registered Manager at David Gresham House, and now heads the team at our lovely residential care home in Oxted.

Emese still has an active interest in both Health & Fitness and expanding her knowledge. In her spare time, she is pursuing teaching, and assessing Yoga and Pilates diploma courses. She actually manages to find some time to still deliver some private exercise classes herself.

Emese also has two dogs that require a lot of exercise; therefore, walking has become a large part of her life outside work, and she challenges herself every year with a 50K race, raising funds for charities close to her heart.

Emese’s experience and leadership skills combined with her energy and passion for learning and developing, help ensure the David Gresham community enjoy a vibrant and forward thinking environment to live and work in.

Some Kind Words

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  • I had a short stay following surgery. All the staff were very caring and helpful. My requests were listened to and acted upon speedily. This was my second respite visit and I thoroughly recommend David Gresham House for this purpose.

    Christine D (Respite Resident)
  • If you allowed 110% this would show how good Gresham is. I could not praise it enough. Everyone was so kind. Thank you.

    Peter M (Resident)
  • My mother moved in six months ago having been struggling at home. She has settled in well, the staff are all friendly and helpful and she particularly loves the food. She now has the choice of her own company in her room, or joining others for meals and activities. She also enjoys the garden now the summer is here.

    Mike P (Son of Resident)
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